Why are People afraid of
Public Speaking

Fear of Public Speaking: What Is It?

Public speaking anxiety, often called glossophobia, is one of the most common phobias in the world. This intense fear occurs when someone faces the prospect of speaking in front of an audience.  People experiencing this fear often feel nervous, self-conscious, or overwhelmed at the idea of delivering a presentation or speech. The symptoms of being afraid are increased heart rate, sweaty palms and your mouth is dry, you can't get your words out or you might freeze or forget your words.  It can range from slight nervousness to paralysing fear and panic but don’t worry you are not alone.
Many people with this fear avoid public speaking situations altogether, or they suffer through them often with shaking hands and a quavering voice some resort to taking medication if this is you come and meet us. 
With preparation and persistence, and the supportive environment of our Speakers Club,  you’ll conquer your fear and transform into a confident speaker.

Read below for advice to get you started or contact us for more information. 

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Tips for Conquering Your Public Speaking Fear

Public speaking can be daunting, but with the right strategies, you can overcome your fears and become a confident speaker.

Scroll down for a comprehensive guide filled with handy tips to help you conquer your fear of public speaking and presentations. 

The strategies to beat your fear of public speaking

With our help, advice and support you can beat that fear 

The fear of public speaking is the most common phobia ahead of death, spiders, or heights, public speaking anxiety.
 
The underlying fear is judgment or negative evaluation by others,  which really boils down to fear of being ridiculed, rejected, and publicly humiliated.
But preparation and persistence, and the following tips, can help overcome the fear.

Whether you are a proponent of public speaking or view it with a sense of panic and fear, public speaking is a valuable communication tool that serves a myriad of functions such as being informative, motivational, persuasive, and as a networking opportunity.

You’d be surprised to see how many superstars suffer from appearing in live shows and concerts.
Rowan Atkinson and Adele  both feel overwhelmed before the curtain call.
They have all had to devise strategies for overcoming this fear.

So what practical steps can you take?

The Association of Speakers Clubs  gives strategies to reduce your fear of public speaking. 

Check out the details of each strategy below and then come and try them out for yourself at either of our Speakers Club.

Common Causes of Public Speaking Fear 

Understanding the root of public speaking anxiety can help you manage and eventually overcome it. Here are some of the most significant causes:

1. Fear of Judgment

Many people worry about how the audience perceives them. They fear being judged, ridiculed, or misunderstood.

2. Lack of Experience

Speaking in front of a crowd may be intimidating if you’re not used to it. Practice and familiarity often ease this anxiety over time.

3. Perfectionism

The desire to deliver a flawless presentation can paralyze people. Perfectionism often makes speakers overly critical of themselves.

4. Negative Past Experiences

A previous bad experience with public speaking can heighten fear. This includes events where the speaker may have frozen, forgotten what to say, or felt embarrassed.

5. Fear of Forgetting

Many speakers worry about blanking out during their presentation, fearing they won’t be able to recover from it.

6. High Stakes

If the presentation has significant professional or social consequences, the pressure to perform well can escalate nervousness.


Top Tips to Overcome the Fear of Public Speaking

Fortunately, public speaking anxiety can be managed and reduced. Here are few effective tips for overcoming this fear:


Fight the Fear
Tip #1

According to a fact sheet from Purdue University,
"Proper preparation and rehearsal can help to reduce this fear by about 75%."
This highlights the significant impact that thorough preparation and practice can have on alleviating the fear of public speaking.


Why it works: The more familiar you are with your material, the more confident you'll feel. Rehearsing allows you to internalize your key points and reduces the chance of forgetting.


How to do it: Practice in front of a mirror, record yourself, or rehearse in front of friends or colleagues for feedback.

Preparation and Practise to Overcome  the Fear 

Preparation and Practise  
The foundation of overcoming any fear is thorough preparation.
Being well prepared can significantly reduce anxiety and increase confidence. Start by thoroughly understanding your topic and organizing your content in a clear, logical structure. 

Rehearsal

When we watch great speakers and entertainers like Winston Churchill or Martin Luther King Jr., their performances seem effortless.
What we don’t see are the teams of speechwriters and the countless hours of practice behind each flawless delivery.
Even Churchill’s impromptu remarks and King’s seemingly spontaneous speeches were meticulously rehearsed long before they were presented.

Similarly, for those of us who are not professionals, a similar path of preparation and practice is essential to conquer the fear of public speaking.
Practice your speech multiple times, ideally in front of a mirror or a small, supportive audience.

Preparation

Preparation involves taking control of the factors within your reach and planning for potential mishaps. Here’s what you can do:

Anticipating Challenges

While there are countless potential challenges, some common ones include:


Remember, anticipating these situations allows you to prepare effective solutions.


Fight the Fear
Tip #2

Napoleon Hill's insights on visualization and belief in success are profound. He said, "Cherish your visions and dreams as they are the children of your soul, the blueprints of your ultimate achievements."
This highlights that our dreams are the foundation of success. By valuing and nurturing them, we can turn them into reality. 

Why it works: Visualising a successful presentation can help create a positive mental image, reducing fear.


How to do it: Spend a few minutes each day picturing yourself speaking confidently and receiving a positive response from the audience. 

Visualise Success to Overcome  the Fear 

Preparation and Practise  
The practice of visualising success, particularly in the context of public speaking, is grounded in cognitive psychology notably the principle of self-efficacy. 

By repeatedly imagining a successful outcome, individuals can enhance their their belief in their own ability to perform tasks effectively enhancing  confidence and reduce anxiety, which are key components of a successful performance.
This mental rehearsal primes the brain to act in accordance with the positive imagery, thereby increasing the likelihood of a favorable outcome

It's a technique often used by athletes, performers, and business professionals alike to prepare for high-pressure situations.  involves detailed and focused visualisation of the task at hand, leading to improved mental preparation and a positive mindset.

Regularly dedicationg time to this practise to visualize speaking with confidence and engaging the audience, one can build a mental blueprint that guides actual performance, making the envisioned success more attainable which can significantly impact one's ability to deliver a confident and well-received presentation.

 
Napoleon Hill's work, in "Think and Grow Rich," has inspired many to use the power of thought and belief to achieve their goals.


Fight the Fear
Tip #3

Mindfulness and relaxation are closely linked with cultivating a peaceful, present state of mind.
Jon Kabat-Zinn captures this by saying,
"The best way to capture moments is to pay attention. This is how we cultivate mindfulness." This emphasizes that mindfulness involves actively engaging with the present moment, leading to relaxation and clarity.

Why it works:  Deep breathing helps calm your nervous system, making you feel more in control.


How to do it: Before speaking, take slow, deep breaths. Inhale for four counts, hold for four, and exhale for four.

Breathe and Relax to Overcome  the Fear 

Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques

The technique of deep breathing is a powerful tool for managing stress and anxiety. It works by activating the body's natural relaxation response, a state of deep rest that changes the physical and emotional responses to stress.
When you breathe deeply, it sends a message to your brain to calm down and relax. The brain then sends this message to your body, which leads to a decrease in heart rate, blood pressure, and muscle tension.

This method is not only beneficial before speaking but can be used in any situation where you need to find calm and focus, such as before an important meeting, during a stressful event, or even to wind down before sleep.

It's a simple yet effective way to maintain balance and control in your daily life.
Anxiety often stems from negative thoughts and physical tension.
Incorporate mindfulness and relaxation techniques into your routine to calm your nerves. Deep breathing exercises, meditation, and progressive muscle relaxation can help reduce stress.

Relaxation techniques are varied and can cater to different preferences and situations. Some people find guided imagery, where you visualize a calm and peaceful setting, to be incredibly soothing. Mindfulness meditation, which involves being present in the moment without judgment, can also help reduce stress.

Before your speech, take a few moments to breathe deeply and center yourself

"Taking a few moments to breathe deeply and center yourself before speaking can make a world of difference.” -  Amy Cuddy, author of
"Presence: Bringing Your Boldest Self to Your Biggest Challenges"

More help here
NHS self-help breathing exercises for stress

Fight the Fear
Tip #4

Brian Tracy,
a public speaking expert, advises starting small to overcome the fear of speaking.
He began with a group of seven and now speaks to thousands worldwide,
showing that modest beginnings can lead to significant achievements in public speaking

Why it worksStart by speaking in front of smaller, more comfortable groups to build your confidence gradually.


How to do it: Take opportunities to speak in meetings, small groups, or low-pressure environments. Gradually increase the size of your audience. 

Start Small to Overcome  the Fear 

Remember that Little changes, Change everything, over time!

Building confidence in public speaking is a gradual process that benefits greatly from starting with smaller audiences which our speakers club provide and are an outstanding .

This approach allows for a more personal and less intimidating environment, where the speaker can engage more directly with the audience and receive immediate feedback.
As comfort and proficiency grow, speaking in front of larger groups becomes less daunting. It's also beneficial to practice in a variety of settings to adapt to different audiences and dynamics.

This strategy not only improves public speaking skills but also enhances overall communication abilities, making it an effective method for personal and professional development.

Organizations like the Association of Speakers Clubs are key to improving public speaking skills play a pivotal role in enhancing public speaking skills.
They offer structured environments where speakers practice, receive feedback, and grow. 

The Association of Speakers Clubs provides a supportive setting with a program that includes prepared speeches, evaluations, and impromptu topics, helping members develop a wide range of speaking skills. Our Public Speaking Classes offer a system of certificates that  recognizes progress and mastery of various public speaking facets.

We recognise the importance of feedback and the value of a supportive community, which are crucial for improving public speaking abilities and building confidence in front of an audience.

Above all we are a 

friendly club

We have a little formality when its called for and it is useful to learn the rules about public speaking but above all we think people should 

enjoy the evenings.

Members come from all sorts of backgrounds.  Some are experienced speakers, others are absolute beginners.  What we do know is that whoever you are you will be able to learn something and more importantly help others gain confidence and become more proficient as well.

How much you participate is entirely up to you. There is scope for every ambition.

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A typical evening

There is no such thing as a typical evening.  They vary so much depending on the chairman and the needs for members to practice different aspects of public speaking.  However when you come you will find that we often follow this sort of format.

Presidents remarks

Presidents warm up

Chairman's introduction

Two speeches of 5 to 8 minutes

Evaluation of the speeches

Topics session

(practice in impromptu speaking)

Evaluation of topics

General evaluation

Club business

President's close

We do other things too:

"From where I started to where I got to by the end of the season were just two different places!  " – Simon Kemp  

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